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The women who are asked 'how do you have sex?'

"Can you have sex? How do you have sex?"

Disabled women say they are often asked those questions, and are not surprised or offended anymore.

Kat Watkins says disabled people have a right to explore their sexual identity and develop relationships just like anybody else.

"Sex and relationships, that's just a human need, and if you have an impairment or a disability, so what."

Video edited by Erin Lister

14 November 2024

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