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The Documentary Podcast, World of Wisdom: Feeling used

The Documentary Podcast

World of Wisdom: Feeling used


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January 22, 2022

18 minutes

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When we feel taken advantage of by people, it can be very hurtful and leave us feeling bitter. Giving a lot to our friends can come with the expectation that the same is offered in return. This is the experience of Jacob, from India. He speaks to Sister Dang Nghiem who suggests that through giving to ourselves and developing self-love, we find we need less appreciation from others.

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